July 19, 2008

  • How would you accept rejection from the person you love?

    How can I accept it?  It happens so often that I've just grown numb to it.  I was a romantic once and believed in true love and such nonsense, but I've found a solution, not that it's a good one.  Here are the seven steps to dealing with rejection:

    1. Don't care about anyone any more.
    2. Don't expect anyone to care.
    3. Expect only betrayal and rejection.
    4. Be numb to people's emotions.
    5. Be numb to your own emotions.
    6. Take advantage of people's ignorance or weaknesses.
    7. Build barriers to make you unaccessable.

    You may not have peace or joy, but at least you'll have satisfaction and revenge.  You won't be a 'good' person if there is such a thing, and you may not be able to live with yourself if you have a conscience, but you'll survive (and get rid of the conscience it only gets in the way of satisfaction).  You only live once right?

    OR
      
    Just deal with it, stop feeling sorry about yourself, and try to put it in the past.  Hang out with positive friends (not emo people--they can cut themselves to death for all I care--they like that feeling anyway) that won't sympathize (sympathy is of the devil; it only makes you feel worse), but will pull you out with their own positive outlook in life.  Same
    goes if it's a family member that rejects.  Life's too short to be
    hanging on to negative emotions and trying to figure them out.  They're there.  Move on.  Love & kindness always show up when you least expect it, it's better that way.

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